Why Relationship Building Matters?
- Jacob Isom
- Feb 29, 2024
- 3 min read
Identify any activity, workplace, or instance where relationships are not important to the effectiveness of people gathering with the aim of accomplishing a goal. I’ll wait! While relationship building isn’t as viable as creating a better future for yourself or even appreciating your craft, it is impactful on any and everything that we do. Focusing on healthy relationships will not only help us sleep better at night but also help establish new opportunities, friendships, and perspectives on life.
Nothing Happens Without Language
Communication is the vehicle of expression and knowledge. Relationships are only as functional as communication. It is essential to develop relationships because the people around us are conduits of information that we will certainly need as we progress. Supportive relationships are those that aid and equip people with the need to carry out goals and tasks. Have you ever encountered someone who failed to complete a task directly related to your assignment? Relationships are the key to problem-solving, conflict resolution, and task completion.
Communication is the heartbeat for establishing and sustaining social relationships. In any business endeavor, value is the key to maintaining consumers. It is through effective communication that the social viability of a business is built and sustained. Devoting time to training employees and staff initially will elevate disgruntled situations between staff members. Effective communication also necessitates that all parties have a voice and are not being disrespected.
How to Build and Sustain Relationships
We have always heard that non-verbal communication is more pervasive than verbal. This is still true; gestures are crucial when communicating because our brains subconsciously record these cues. Hand motion, eye movement, and other subtle gestures play a role in consistent behavior when building and sustaining a relationship.
Every interaction with people will not develop into friendships, and it is alright to remain acquaintances or colleagues. But regardless, all relationships must have boundaries. It may be uncomfortable at first, but relationships will be difficult to sustain if both parties fail to set clear boundaries. The best social relationships are built on clarity and authenticity. And some relationships require more commitment than others. Relationship systems are based on patterns, trends, and consistent behavior. People can only build trust if they understand their roles and act as a team.
Successful Strategies to Remember
You cannot change people; they are who they are. Your frustration and stress will be limited if you do not take things personally. Always remember, it is about the end goal, not the individual.
Keep a positive energy. Others will see how energetic you are and draw inspiration from your energy. People will follow your lead if you present what you want.
Appreciate the value that people can bring to the table. Everyone has something to offer, and it is beneficial if others know that their input is valuable. At the end of the day, we all want to be appreciated.
Never desert a brethren. We all make mistakes and need to be supported during our shortcomings. Do not back up someone when they are morally wrong, but always be of assistance when the need arises.
Listen. Listening is an untapped, forgotten skill. Listen without interrupting and judging the other person. This skill doesn’t come by default, but it becomes part of your automated response with practice.
Empathy and Sympathy. We all respond differently, but empathizing and sympathizing are feelings we should express as humans. Understanding why a person has such a belief system gives the other person comfort in knowing that you care about them as a person.
Apologize when you are wrong. An apology, when necessary, is really important and can help revive a dying relationship. As an individual, you must possess the ability to admit your faults; avoiding responsibility is a wrong act.
Be conscious of your emotions. Emotions are a part of every decision. We must be conscious of the several emotions that can bring discomfort. Settle your emotions, then clearly communicate your expectations.
When we can’t connect with others, we become expendable and untrustworthy. Rapport depends on effective communication and a basic understanding of each other’s feelings and needs. Unresolved conflicts linger and create anger and resentment. Developing and nurturing relationships can impact every area of your life. It necessitates the ability to respond in productive ways that are stress-free and have limited liability.
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